Sunday, November 22, 2009

what's the point?

Assalamualaikum n salam sejahtera sumer...

How u guys doing?great I hope. Me..not so good. Emotionally tired.Its not the thing that i like so much in this life but, sometimes..somebody needs to kick somebody in the back just to knock some sense into their thick skull.

I have had it with neighbour no 1 today. Its Sunday n it was spose to be everyones day off. Working or not. Its just how it was spose to happen everywhere around this globe i guess. Specially for those with a 9-5 job. Thing is..when u wake up on Sunday morning..u expect a lil quiet environment to just...relax.
Yesterday, after comin back from school, she was screaming n shouting..each n every words ends with "bodoh".she even use the P*****K word again.Alot!

Her children suffers from tremendous emotional n psychological abuse.Day in day out. Nobody ever told her to shut up before. But like i said, i had enough today! I scream back telling her to shut it. I was stressed out myself from hearing words of abuse from her. After that i call up the husband. Told him that i just had a fight with his wife. bkn nk mengadu but i want him to understand my reason. I didnt mean to interfere with his personal life n how he handle his wife.I just cant take it anymore. He said that he understand me n that somehow made me feel a lil better. At least he understand. So he call his wife since he wasn't home when we had our "thing" n i guess he said something that ticks her off. She open her door, scream "P*****K* ko! mengadu kat laki aku plak!" n slam her door as loud as possible.

that lady needs to get 1 thing straight..i didnt call her husband to mengadu. I was merely explaining to him why i lost it with his wife. I didnt even tell him what word she was using on me. Just hoping for an understanding. N he did.

Here's the list of things that i have done for that pompuan:-
1. pinjamkan phone for her to call n sms her hubby when her mobile punye credit dah flat.
2. pinjamkan some cash
3. pinjamkan cili, halia
4. jaga anak dia while she went to the hospital for her asthmatic treatment
5. take her n her children in when their electricity kena cut off sbb dah lama x bayar bil
6. mengajar anak dia tution for FREE
7. bg dia ubat batuk n panadol sebab dia demam n batuk teruk
8. jadik her shoulder to cry on when she thought her husband was having an affair
9. take her in at 1 o'clock in the morning until 5 just to dengar her side of the story.

n she said she have never menyusahkan aku?? hurmm.. x tau lah nk ckp aper kan.
so far as i know, kalau aku jahat sangat, what i can, i can send child service a letter n tell them that she's not fit to be a mother! Hah! beat that SUGAR!!!biar anak dia kena ambik ngan child service, masa tu, tgklah saper yg nk makan sumpah? org yg x der anak, nk anak..tp org yg ader anak, diberi anugerah utk menjadi mak dan bapak, buat bende2 mcm tu pulak. I'm sure tuhan x bg anak kat everybody utk di perlakukan mcm tu.Wallahua'lam.

tu lah luahan rasa dr perut aku ari ni.
till next entry~
no cheers!!
noreez™

New!!!

Assalamualaikum n salam sejahtera sumer....

Just now, aku dah buat blog baru. Sajer...nk mengade kan..hahah

here's the add : ~ The New Blog

tu jer nk type..dah nk tdo dah pun..heheh

nite, sleep tight!

cheers!!
noreez™(^^,)

Thursday, November 19, 2009

one after another

Assalamualaikum n salam sejahtera sumer...

Whew! lama jugak x update blog yekk..

Korang Apa Khabar?-cheh..skema jer..haha

two days ago..we went to the hospital for Princess follow-up. Did the EEG then see the doc.
So..talked to doc, seems that her EEG results for the past 2 EEG was normal..so she suggested that we gradually stop the medication. ALHAMDULILLAH! Once i sat crying thinking of how long will it take for my daughter to consume her medication nite after nite. Its finally over.
As we were there..the superb doc took her stethoscope n have a listen to my daughter's lungs and all...she told us..there's a crackling sound. As tho there's bubbles in her lungs. I was like..adoyai!

She didn't say what it was but asked if we'd prefer the spray or syrup..we immediately choose syrup.Not wanting to lessen her self confidence with the idea of carrying spray and all.
So off we went to the pharmacy, waiting for her medication to be dispense. Then , came Superb Doc's nurse, Nurse Farah, she gave me the MC n other documents..n there..I saw Superb Doc's description - Bronchitis!!

For those who didn't know..after taking Orfiril Long for more than 6 months..my daughter suffers from sorta slow reaction. How do I put this..her study was affected..her school works affected..her moods affected...on her previous exam she was on the 16th place in her class! that was the first ever not being in top 10! I was speechless...secretly thinking that she might be taking advantage on her medications side effect to not study as hard. I was wrong. I went to see her teacher..she told me that princess has got a lot of catching ups to do. she seems to be quite slow in her class. Thats the best class in school..not being able to secure top ten means they'll shift her to diff class. Then the final exam..ended couple of weeks ago. She gets number 4!! Number 4 for the whole year Three. her teacher was very impressed. Didnt even think that princess would score above 90 in her Maths exam. I wanted to cry. But..I'm all out of tears. Scoring 100 in her english paper..she'll be receiving best student award in English Department for Standard Three. I am so very proud of her. After all her health problems, she manage to catch up and do her best. Just the sort of attitude i always love bout her n her dad. Saying that..obviously that attitude didnt come from me. =)

To my darling daughter- Mummy loves u so much..infinity!I am so proud to be ur mother.Get well n May Allah bless u in any way u choose to lead ur life.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

neighbors~

Assalamualaikum n salam sejahtera sumer....

How u guys doing? hope all is fine. As for moi...OFFENDED a lil but otherwise A-okay!

Why do u ask? O nothing...its just that few weeks ago we did the "Open House" thing, everyone was there but my next door NEIGHBORS!!!! Oh how i felt so sakit hati. U may think that..well, they might be somewhere else attending some other Open house invitation or they're too busy with some urgent matters. U r then a 100% wrong my friends!

Okay..neighbor number one-
  • a week before that, I told her myself that we're gonna have this Open House thingy. Invited her then.
  • Few days before the event, I invited her. AGAIN.
  • Saturday-Open House, Friday-she knocks on my door, then calls(YES!CALL-S) me -to my horror should somekind of emergency had occur.Guess what?? She just wanted to have a womenly gossip session!!!! I was so freaking pissed! She should know better than to bother me on Friday coz that would be the busiest day before the event. Note here that i did all the cooking myself. Not to mention the cleaning.
  • Saturday-knock on her door, maid told me, she's not around..she just left with her husband.

I was still very calm then. Not to worry..our Open House starts at 2 pm -8 pm. I then look out the window, n there...their car! Its there!!! Its F*****G there!!!On the parking lot in front of my house!!! Its really there! I wasn't imagining things. Then i remember..since their maid told me earlier that they went out n if they were REALLY out, I think, I'll just wait. They'll have to pass my house anyway. Still no sign of them. N their car-still there.

I know she's inside. Didn't even bother appologizing the next day. Saw them having lunch as their front door's always open. I just couldn't face her or some bad words might go their way. So decided to stop talking to her. It never was a very intelligent conversation I have had with her before anyway. Well..not until i totally cool down. As for now..I'm still upset.

Thats neighbor numero uno. Neighbor no 2 is a no show either. Same case, saw both their cars on the parking lot but they "appear" to be away. HAHA! Very funny people!The next day, she ask me, "Kak Nor, ur open house, its today rite? or that was yesterday??" AHA!! i knew she's gonna ask me that! I knew it!Come on!!!I invited her 2 days before n she said "yes we'll definitely come. we have nothing to do that day anyway." They saw my wet kitchen yesterday. All the big pots n pans, n me being there since early morning. Dont tell me that it didnt occur to them that i was cooking for a whole lot of people. I did answer her though. I said,"YESTERDAY" n i left.

Ooo..both neighbors owe me some moolah. U think it could be the reason they prefer to hide then come n serve my invitation? Well, to me, its raya. Neighbor no 2 owe me a lot more than just moolah. Its the only time we can get together bermaaf-maafan coz believe it or not, no one was ever around on the first few days of Syawal!

Anyway, talk to neighbor number 1 today. She's so full of it. I hate that she's always using me n knows when i'm in no position to say NO.Geram tau. What to do.

N I'm ever so grateful for having the 2 other chinese neighbors. I invited them on Saturday, n they turn up. We talked. Get to know each other. What they're up to. Its great. Really great feeling to finally know who they really are.

So thats me for now. Till next entry.

Cheers!!

noreez™(^^,)

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Wedding

Assalamualaikum, Salam Sejahtera..

Seperti yg aku dah janjikan kat esen/isin..ni adelah gambar nikah adik ipar aku. Setelah aku mengodek² photobucket selama beberapa minit. huhuhu..sebb kalau nk upload guna blogger ni lambat yg amat. Sudahnyer, aku give up. Dah lama dah sebenarnyer aku nk masukkan gambar ni, tp tulah..sebb yg di catat di atas. hehe

N mintak maaflah aku x jemput sesaper, bkn per..ni majlis dia kan..bg aku, majlis, nikah kawen ni, mestilah simple, x over the top dan yg paling penting, private. Bkn lah sesuatu yg kite guna utk ambik kesempatan menunjuk kemampuan kita meraikan pengantin dgn cara yg paling membazir sekali. Kalau ikutkan aku, majlis nikah kawen, hanyalah utk ahli keluarga terdekat dan kawan² rapat. X payahlah nk jemput org ternama, artis, datuk datin dr ceruk mana bagai unless dorang tu family. Yg penting pasangan pengantin diraikan secara sederhana tp puas hati. FULLSTOP. Jgn nnt, bile dah buat bagai nk rak..lepas majlis, mengumpat org tu, mengumpat org ni..pakai baju cam tah paperlah, x bg hadiah lah..org tu dpt pahala, kita dpt dosa.Puas hati?x kannnn... huhuhu..

Anyway, sebelum aku membebel lebih lanjut..silelah cuci mata ngan gambar yg x seberapa ni. Ni gambar² masa akad nikah-Masjid PJ, resepsi bride's side-Dewan Felda.



wani

akad

ring time


hantaran

wokeh...tu yg akad nikah

wokey...halfway during the process of uploading pics to photobucket , my internet die on me. thats for the thousand-th times today just so u know.

will put up some more pictures insya-allah.

enjoy!

noreez™(^^,)